Silence isn’t about being passive or shy, it is about speaking at the right time and the right words. Our words can make or break relationships and certain times, silence is like gold, it shines and conveys best what it is meant to.
Below are few situations that when its best to let silence do the talking;
- DURING AN ARGUMENT- When in an argument, its very easy to say harsh things and let emotions take the better of us. Just hold your horses and your words, try silence. This will stop the situation from escalating.
- WHEN YOU DO NOT HAVE THE FULL FACTS- When you do not know all the facts and are not fully informed, its relevant to be quiet and listen and learn.
- WHEN IN GRIEF- When a person is in grief and is opening up to you, all the grieving person needs is someone to share their emotions, just be calm and lend a kind ear. Silence shows compassion.
- WHEN SOMEONE ELSE NEEDS THE SPOTLIGHT- Life is filled with triumph and celebration, and in these times, we often feel compelled to share our experiences. A good person will listen, appreciate and celebrate the other person’s success, rather than just talk.
- WHEN YOU NEED TO REFLECT- Sometimes situations are chaotic and rather than respond, its more important to reflect. Immediate reactions are not the best response just a hasty reflex.
- POWER OF SILENCE- Silence has a huge impact on relationships. It shows understanding and respect.
Try silence my friends, it might bring you more than your words.
